How to stop self doubt

How to stop self doubt

I’m normally the first one to say that self-doubt has at some point or another crippled me into believing that I’m not good enough for anything good or successful or anyone that would love me. Crippled by the thought of never succeeding or finding love. Crippled by the thought of being alone. Crippled by feeling like my looks and body shape is not the best. But all that negative vibes are gone and I’ve come

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How to survive maternity leave without going broke

How to survive maternity leave without going broke

It’s been 5 months since my baby was born, and about two months since returning back to the land of the working class. I received my first salary in February since my maternity leave ended and it was so nice to have a salary again after four months of none. It really made me appreciate having a job (even though I really didn’t want to go back) and being able to buy the things I

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MOTG: Mustard

MOTG: Mustard

I’ve always been one to keep our family tradition of celebrating family birthdays, my dad loved it, my mom always holds a little birthday party, my extended family is big on family birthday gatherings, but Zahir’s family… not so much, so they will usually have a quiet supper or lunch at their home with the immediate family … no mess no fuss so very quickly Zahir had to adjust of my crazy family birthday bashes

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My Body Positivity Story

My Body Positivity Story

I didn’t always have an issue with my weight, all of my teenage life and most of my twenties I had a decent sized figure and I didn’t care much for exercise and I practically ate whatever I wanted. But since I had the twins in my late twenties and now a baby boy at thirty four my body ballooned into what it is now. Overweight. I haven’t had the energy or will power to

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SoyLites luxury hamper + Giveaway

SoyLites luxury hamper + Giveaway

So the other day I was asked whether I wanted to test out the SoyLites candle and body products and immediately I responded with a big yesss. I knew this was going to be awesome because anything from SoyLites was going to be luxurious and make you feel like you’re some kind of spa. Anyone who knows me knows that I’m a sucker for nice smelling candles and body butters. I really enjoyed playing with these

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Story time: Our Love Story

Story time: Our Love Story

Technically speaking Zahir and I should have met long before we actually did. However, It all happened one day in 2007 when I met him, I was working out at the gym with my bestie, minding my own business when I saw this gorgeous guy out of the corner of my eye, walking into the gym. He walked to the treadmill right in front of me, score I got to stalk him while I was cycling my

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My thoughts on Co-Sleeping

My thoughts on Co-Sleeping

When I first became pregnant with the twins, I was adamant from the get go that the girls would be sleeping in their cots, in our room, but never with us in the bed. I read a lot about sleep training and what experiences other moms were going through with their kids who also by the way said that there was no way their kids were going to sleep in the bed with them either.

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